Condom first time

Thursday, April 26, 2007
Condom First Time
I recall my first time with a condom, I was 16 or so. I went in to buy a package of condoms. There was a beautiful woman behind the counter, and she could see that I was new at it. She handed me the package and asked, if I knew how to wear one. I honestly answered,"No." So she unwrapped the package, took one out and slipped over her thumb. She cautioned me to make sure it was on tight and secure. I apparently still looked confused. So she looked all around the store. It was empty. She said," "Just a minute." And walked to the door, and locked it. Taking my hand, she led me into the back room, unbuttoned her blouse and removed it She unhooked her bra (.)(.) and laid it aside. She asked,"Do these excite you?" Well, I was so dumb-struck that all I could do was nod my head.She then said, it was time to slip the condum on. As I was slipping it on, she dropped her skirt, removed her panties and laid down on a desk. "Well , come on", she said, "We don't have much time." So I climbed on her. It was so wonderful, that unfortunately, I could no longer hold back and pow, I was done within a few minutes.She looked at me with a frown. "Did you put that condom on?"I said, "I sure did." And held up my thumb to show her.
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K.Venugopal Friday, April 27, 2007 9:05:43 PM
The punch line or climax was so unexpected and brilliant - just how a joke or sex should be.

Bhagavath Gita for the outstanding youth

Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Bhagavath Gita for the outstanding youth
Bhagawath Gita teaches any one ,at any place ,at any time to manage his or her personality development.Arjuna was agreat warrior ,truthful,honest and trust worthy.But he was extremely confused and anxious when his kith and kin betrayed him.He lacked courage to face life.There was a lack in his personality. So, LORD Krushna gives him the methodoligies as Gita to improve his Personality.
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K.Venugopal Tuesday, April 24, 2007 8:45:27 PM
We are confused because we are distracted. A seeing would be perfect only if we can see through a thing, that is, not see something just superficially. Arjuna was confused at the battle-field because he was not able to see the significance of the moment. He was distracted by attachments. Krishna brought back his focus. The truth is, everything has a place and time.

Sankhya Yoga - peace and hapiness

Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Shankya Yoga--peace and happiness
peace and happiness is a rare thing to accure in one's life.peace and the breadth has a positive connection.if one learns the art of breathing alone can have a peaceful life.
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K.Venugopal Tuesday, April 24, 2007 8:30:28 PM
We breathe. Then there is the art of breathing. We walk. And there is the art of walking. All art comes in when we are awake to what we are doing. When we are awake to life, we live artfully.

There is no God!

Tuesday, April 24, 2007
There is No GOD !!!!
The Mere existance of god is nowhere exceptthe Human mind.
The God is the depiction of everything whichWe cannot control.
Nature is God.The Solar System is God.The Pious feeling is God.Our Social responsibility is God.Our Duty and service is God.The Eco-System is God.Everything is God.
Its True...
But no where is God which our religions teach.All relegion believe in different forms ofGodly nature.
The Simple Fact that there is more than 1relegion is that they DIFFER in thier form of God and godly practices.
The relegious duties defined in holy booksour not God's voice but the Experience ofthe human mind living in certain naturalconditions.
Look At some Facts (Persoanl Hypothesis):
case 01: Hindus Worship cows (and Bulls)Reason : Indus valley civilization is agriculture based.Cattle is very important to cultivation.
case 02: Hindus Worship Trees and AnimalsReason : cattle & greenary is very important to cultivation.
case 03: Muslims don't worship mammal-They eatReason : The climate near mecca-medina is not fit for cultivation. The main food sources are camels, goats and farm.
case 04: Muslims don't touch Pigs !!Reason : There is no water sources in Arabic Deserts So all human waste is mixed in soil while pigs are best consumer of human waste. So it became a 'sin' to eat pigs in Muslims.
case 05: Muslim's Don't consume liqour.Reason : The Troubling tribes of thier time used to raise havoc after consuming liqour. So it became a bad omen.
case 06: polygamy allowed in muslimsReason : Sex ratio at that time was very bad in Arab countries and polygamy was the balancing act.
case 07: Bengali Hindu's use Non-veg during Puja'sReason : The staple food of Bengal is Fish & rice. Fish is beleived sacred as they suport life for many.Other Non-Veg follow suit to fish.
case 08: South-Indian Hindu's are very relegious.Reason : They are the actual occupant of INDIA and they are pioneers in having faith in Nature god. Nature is vast that thier god's and thier rituals have many facets. They did not mixed with a simpler Aryan culture.
case 9 : The concept of Achhoot , kaafir and outcastesReason : The variety of relegions available these theories are kept to pressurise its followers to stick to the relgion or society will not accpt u. It is a weak point in all relegions !!!
There are more theories which i will put forward in near future. You Comments are welcome
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Posted By The Unknown Citizen Comments (3) Society
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Shyam Tuesday, April 24, 2007 11:56:59 AM
Ostrich hides its head in sand and thinks that it is safe. Cat closes its eyes and thinks that whole world is dark. Unknown citizens spray simpleton thoughts in blog space and think they have achieved something remarkable. World keeps moving despite all this. God keeps watching these movements, He doesn't cause these movements!
Atheist Tuesday, April 24, 2007 12:08:40 PM
Dear Shyam....why is that some people just don'twant to see beyond what they havebeen seeing all life now?Why is that believers like you just don't want to think beyond relegious God ?why are you afraid of thinking beyond and thinking practical !!God will not punish you to think.
K.Venugopal Tuesday, April 24, 2007 8:24:58 PM
Dear Atheist, When anyone says there is no God, he is basically challenging someone’s believe in or concept of God.I would define God as the absolute and to bring the absolute to our level of conversation, we need to ‘reduce’ God. All ‘reductions’ (read expressions) are valid as long as they seek to depict the absolute. Going by the reasons you have given in the cases quoted, you, an atheist, are projecting the practices as reasonable. The theist might view it from a different angle to find the practices reasonable. Aren’t the atheist and theist therefore agreeing to the same things, but only differing in explanations?

Why always Muslims?

Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Why always muslims
Why a Jew can grow his beard in order to practice his faith But when Muslim does the same, he is an extremist and terrorist! Why a nun can be covered from head to toe in order to devote herself to God But when Muslimah does the same she's oppressed When a western women stays at home to look after her house and kids she is respected because of sacrificing herself But when a Muslim woman does so by her will, they say, "she needs to be liberated"! Any girl can go to university wearing what she wills and have her rights and freedom? But when Muslimah wears a Hijab they prevent her from entering her university! When a child dedicates himself to a subject he has potential But when he dedicates himself to Islam he is hopeless! When a Christian or a Jew kills someone religion is not mentioned, but when Muslim is charged with a crime, it is Islam that goes to trial! When someone sacrfices himself to keep others alive, he is noble and all respect him. But when a Palestinian does that to save his son from being killed, his brother's arm being broken, his mother being raped, his home being destroyed, and his mosque being violated -- He gets the title of a terrorist! Why? Because he is a Muslim! When there is a trouble we accept any solution? If the solution lies in Islam, we refuse to take a look at it When someone drives a perfect car in a bad way no one blames the car. But when any Muslim makes a mistake or treats people in a bad manner - people say "Islam is the reason"! Without looking to the tradition of Islam, people believe what the newspapers say. But question what the Quran says!
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K.Venugopal Tuesday, April 24, 2007 6:26:06 PM
There is only one answer why it is so - Islam is not just a religion, concerned with the individual's spiritual needs. It is also a political system having its own constitution called Shariat, which it seeks to impose on both believers and non-believers by seeking to form the State in the name of Islam. This threat does not emanate from any other contemporary religion.

Should Yesudas be allowed into Guruvayur Temple?

Wednesday, April 18, 2007
Should Yesudas be allowed into Guruvayur Temple
There is a big hue and cry by some politicians about Guruvayur temple authority's consideration to allow Yesudas entry into the temple. I strongly feel that Yesudas should be allowed to enter the temple. He is a good human being and a true devotee. His love for the God is very evident in the songs he has rendered in praise of the God. His passion and emotions touch the hearts of one and all. Yesudas is being denied entry only because he was born Christian. Is that his fault? I consider him more pure than many Hindus and [Brahmins] who eat meat, beef, drink liquor and lead an immoral life. They get to enter the temple just because they were born Hindus. What an irony!!!!! Isnt it time we became more rational in our thoughts and actions.
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Saddy_007 Wednesday, April 18, 2007 6:21:15 PM
Some hardcore conservatives are only against ..At lest in kerala such incidents should not have happened

K.Venugopal Thursday, April 19, 2007 10:10:31 AM
Every temple has its own rituals and traditions. This is the result of the magnificent culture of Hinduism, which is based on the principle live-and-let-live. A temple has to decide for itself whether new rituals have to be introduced or old ones discontinued. Similarly, whether precedents have to be set under changing circumstances. Such decisions have to be taken by the temple and its devotees in a considered manner. There should not be any pressure from those not directly connected with the temple to force it to act in a particular way. In short, the whole issue is between the temple and Yesudas. The Minister, a communist, suggested entry of Yesudas into the temple probably only to later on facilitate Muslims and Christians to take up jobs in the temple. While I personally would be happy to have Yesudas in Guruvayoor Temple, I hope the temple authorities reject the Minister's suggestion just to spite the proclaimed anti-Hindu Minister. In any case, Yesudas has said he does not want to create a controversy. Great Yesudas and ugly communist minister!

Y only for Muslims?

Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Y Only For Muslims
Y is that govt is sponsoring for the Haj Commitee.
When India has so many religions...Y not Govt sponsor for all of them or stop sponsoring money for Haj pilgrims
Many Hindu's wish to go to KASI,GAYA,Chirstians like to go to jerusalem...Y Govt is not helping them.
Wish NDTV will take up this issue.
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arunnetmail Tuesday, April 17, 2007 6:53:19 PM
Dear brother, you have written what many Hindus have been saying for a long time to the criminal politicians-barring the BJP.I am sure only we take steps and fight for ourselves, we cant achieve anything.
jolly Tuesday, April 17, 2007 11:38:10 PM
Saudi Arabia itself subsidizes millions of dollars for Hajj every year to all Muslims of theworld. Moreover, India's Hajj subsidy is not given to either the Hajis or to Saudi Arabia,but to India's government owned airline Air India. By citing "Hajj Subsidy", Air India thenextracts a number of concessions from the Saudi Airport authorities that are not availableto other commercial airlines. Furthermore, while the Haj subsidy is about Rs. 110-148crores [Rs 1.1 to 1.48 Billion] , the government spends Rs. 450 crores [Rs 4.5 Billion] onthe Hindu festival of Kumbh Mela. The Haj subsidy will dwarf if all the governmentsubsidies to various Hindu rituals and festivals were taken into account. It is also a shamethat the BJP (a non-secular, Hindutva party), while in power, failed to remove the Hajsubsidy despite the lack of opposition to it from the Muslim community. Will the VHPsupport the removal of the Kumbh Mela subsidy?
K.Venugopal Wednesday, April 18, 2007 10:08:37 AM
Dear Jolly, Your comparing Kumbh Mela expenses and Haj subsidy is misplaced because Indian Government spends similarly for Muslim and Christian festivals in India like, say, at Ajmer and Maramon - because the expenses are largely for civil infrastructure and security In any case the Hajj pilgrimage is not in India but in Saudi Arabia and that country spends a substantial amount on it. Which is to say, every country spends on its festivals and social gatherings. But the Indian Government spending for a pilgrimage to a foreign country is in a different league. The BJP while in power could have done away with Hajj subsidy but I think they increased the subsidy. Hypocrisy has become the bane of all political parties.

50+ & Lonely - 50+ and must I take a back seat???

Wednesday, April 18, 2007
50+ & Lonely...50+ and must I take a back seat ???
Today at 51 years of age I am constantly reminded by everyone around me that I am 50 plus.Should I take a back seat ? Should I be a recluse ? A loner ? Should I "kill"my feelings ?.Romance.Love.Relationship.Is it now a dream ?What is my fault ? What is your fault if you are fifty plus.In America it is said life begins at 40.In Mumbai,India it seems to end at 50.Maybe thre is hope.Maybe I see a flicker of light.Protect it.Let all of us, above 50 years of age, arise, awake and continue to enjoy life,with support from each other with love,care and understanding.Let's make our own rules.Our own code of conduct.Our own Constitution that allows us the freedom to live, the way we always lived, before we turned the 50th corner of our life.Suggestions, comments, guidelines invited.Show the world that a 50 Plus can still control the steering wheel of Life and drive at leisure and at his/her own pleasure and risk.
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K.Venugopal Wednesday, April 18, 2007 9:31:10 AM
We are 50 or whatever when measured by the movement of external objects. If we turn within, external measurements are no longer valid. Then we become ageless.

The Black stone is not worshipped by Muslims

Wednesday, April 4, 2007
THE BLACK STONE WORSHIPPED BY MUSLIMS
THE BLACK STONE IS NOT WORSHIPPED BY MUSLIMS
ByAbdul Haleem

Christians regularly to justify their idolatrous practices - such as prayers to Mary - by claiming that Muslims "worship" the Black Stone at the Kaaba in Makkah.
Having been on hajj let me answer this based both on history and my own experiences. The Black Stone - Hajar al- Aswad - is NOT mentioned in the Quran. The Black Stone is located about five feet from the ground on the East corner of the Kaaba (this corner is known as "al-rukn al-Aswad").
While there are traditions about kissing or touching the Stone, its real significance is as marker of the point at which one starts the Tawaaf (circumambulation of the Kaaba as part of hajj or omra.) Even the traditions which talk about kissing or touching the stone are VERY CLEAR that the Stone is JUST A STONE!
BUKHARI:
Volume 2, Book 26, Number 667:
Narrated 'Abis bin Rabia: Umar came near the Black Stone and kissed it and said "NO DOUBT, I KNOW THAT YOU ARE A STONE AND CAN NEITHER BENEFIT ANYONE NOR HARM ANYONE. Had I not seen Allah's Apostle kissing you I would not have kissed you."
Volume 2, Book 26, Number 675:
Narrated Zaid bin Aslam from his father who said: "Umar bin Al-Khattab addressed the Corner (Black Stone) saying, 'BY ALLAH! I KNOW THAT YOU ARE A STONE AND CAN NEITHER BENEFIT NOR HARM. Had I not seen the Prophet touching (and kissing) you, I would never have touched (and kissed) you.' Then he kissed it and said, 'There is no reason for us to do Ramal (in Tawaf) except that we wanted to show off before the pagans, and now Allah has destroyed them.' 'Umar added, '(Nevertheless), the Prophet did that and we do not want to leave it (i.e. Ramal).'"
MUSLIM:
Book 007, Number 2914:
Abdullah b. Sarjis reported: I saw the bald one, i. e. 'Umar b. Khattib (Allah be pleased with him). kissing the Stone and saying: BY ALLAH. I AM KISSING WITH FULL CONSCIOUSNESS OF THE FACT THAT YOU ARE A STONE AND THAT YOU CAN NEITHER DO ANY HARM NOR GOOD; and if I had not seen Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) kissing you. I would not have kissed you. The rest of the hadith is the same.
The Stone is not be worshipped or regarded as anything but a marker.
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At hajj time you are actually unlikely to see the Black Stone: Masjid Al-Haram is just two crowded. There is a line on the floor of the Masjid to tell you where the line of the Black Stone is. Many hajis must perform Tawaaf NOT on the Kaaba floor but on the SECOND OR THIRD STORIES of the Majid Al-Haram!
On Levels #2 and #3 there are both marks on the floor and neon lights to show you where to start and stop tawaaf.
The scholars agree that waving in the direction of the Black Stone is sufficient recognition of its location as the start and stop of Tawaaf.
In actuality, waving in direction of the Black Stone is the best you will probably do at hajj time
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The Black Stone has had an interesting history during the Islamic period. In 930 AD a ruler of Bahrain - who belonged to a branch of Ismailism known as the Karmatians - sacked Makkah and carried the Black Stone away for some 70 years until it was ransomed.
In the process, the Black Stone was cracked. It is now held together by a silver band. The fact that Islam was able to function without the Black Stone for 70 years is one of the best illustrations that it is but a marker for Tawaaf - and NOT an object of worship.


Muslims do not worship the black cube building (Kaaba) in Mecca.
The Prophecy of the yearly pilgrimage to Mecca in the Noble Quran.
Praying (Salah) is a must in the Noble Quran.
Learn how to pray. Detailed instructions with pictures and audio.
Can we use other than the language of Arabic when we pray to Allah Almighty?
Rebuttal to Sam Shamoun's "Stone Kissing and Idolatry" article.
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K.Venugopal Saturday, April 7, 2007 10:45:47 AM
The question about the black stone is why did Mohammad kiss it? No doubt he had good reasons but unfortunately he did not explain it. His successor, proving to be a blind imitator, also kissed the stone while conceding that he did not know why he is doing so except that Mohammad did it. The ritual continues to this day, all Muslims going on Hajj obliged to kiss it as a tradition, without having a clue as to why they are kissing something they do not worship.

Godsson

Sunday, April 1, 2007
GODSSON
Jesus Christ died and was resurrected. He is alive today. If He were not, we would still be in our sins. As Paul wrote: "For if the dead do not rise, then Christ is not risen. And if Christ is not risen, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins!" (1 Corinthians 15:16-17). But the good news is stated next: "But now Christ is risen from the dead, and has become the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since by man came death, by Man also came the resurrection of the dead" (vv. 20-21). So who is Jesus? He is our living Savior! He is our great High Priest, as the Apostle Paul explains (Hebrews 3:1; 4:14). He is at the right hand of God in heaven, where He "makes intercession for us" (Romans 8:34). He will soon come back to Earth as King of kings and Lord of lords, to establish the Kingdom of God on Earth, and to bring us world peace! Will you be ready for His return? Will you accept His sacrifice and shed blood for the payment of your sins? Thank God that the Bible reveals the Savior of the world, Jesus Christ—our living Savior!
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Jesus Will Come Sunday, April 1, 2007 6:20:49 PM
Jesus was never the SON OF GOD neither he claimed divinity nor propogated trinity..All lies by the vatican to fill their coffers..Jesus will come as he is alive in the heavens and proclaim his prophethood to the whole world and expose all the lies...He will first read the following statement "There is no God but Allah and Mohammed is the messanger of God".
K.Venugopal Tuesday, April 3, 2007 12:17:05 PM
Said the self-righteous preacher, "What, in your judgment, is the greatest sin in the world?""That of the person who sees other human beings as sinners," said the Master. (One Minute Nonsense (1992) by Anthony de Mello, p 139)