Live-in relationship

Wednesday, December 27, 2006 Jargon Over Live-in Relationship Now a days over the matter of live-in relationship a big confused outcry is going on in India. Some people favour it while some are against it. The population, which is supporting the live-ion relationship culture of western countries in India, definitely has a large number of young people from all over the India. On the other hand, most of the senior citizens and the people over 40 are oppugning against it by describing it as a bane for the Indian culture and civilization. Many men, many minds. The opinion can differ from person to person. Here some of the questions of great concern arise. That why have this large number of young people prepared them to adopt such live-in relationship culture from the western countries? In addition, what are the circumstances, which made them to do so? I think that everybody can answer my questions very easily, as he knows very well that in present time the relations between a husband and a wife are not so same as it were in the past. Its whole credit goes to those parents/grandparents who neither ever tried to laugh off their quarrel nor diminished their ego before their sacred bond of marriage. I don’t mean that they didn’t ever try to smooth matter/quarrel over but I am sorry to say they were the poor losers in the match of life. Today’s youth and adults are laying their hands on this live-in relationship, as they are scared of the deadlock/domestic violence, which used to happen between a married couples in India. Here I don’t want to say that the couples in western countries don’t have mutual verbal or physical fights, it also happens there. Perhaps, this is why the live-in relationship culture prevails in the western countries. While, the live-in relationship culture doesn’t guarantee for the better and peaceful life but it gives a great conviviality to the misogamist couple. So how can some people prove these young guys wrong for adopting live-in relationship for life long by laughing down the past blunders of their own practices? I also consider the live-in relationship is bad for the Indian culture and civilization but I think if two lives can live happily with this relationship throughout their entire life, it is better for not only both of them but also for a society. In the end but not the least I would like to include also this talk that the parents should present themselves a happy couple before their wards with not only their fiction acts but also with the real practices of their lives so that they (their wards) may not ever imagine to adopt live-in relationship in their future. For We Shouldn’t Forget Ever - Past Is Always Responsible For The Present And Present Shall Always Be Responsible For The Future. Author –Prateek Srivastava Rae Bareli 7:52:06 PM Posted By Prateek Srivastava Comments (16) Uncategorized Comments Fatima Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:02:30 PM I like your article. Radhika Banerzee Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:02:40 PM Yes you are right that the forefathers are respnsible to made us think of living relationship. Ramesh Srivastava Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:03:10 PM What to say , this is true. Shraddha Nigam Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:04:19 PM I fully agree to you. Ramesh Singh Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:04:37 PM very well said. Subhash Singh Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:05:00 PM i also think like you. Vijay Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:05:22 PM i also think so. Branda Srivastava Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:05:39 PM You are right dear. Silpi Mishra Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:06:02 PM quite right. Sumit Ganpathi Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:06:44 PM yes! totally agree with you. Viplove Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:11:07 PM well said. Satyam Verma Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:13:08 PM You are absolutely right. Shubham srivastava Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:16:09 PM yes masterpiece of writing. Nandni Singh Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:21:06 PM a nice poem.Keep it up. Hamid Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:24:39 PM thanks to raise his fine issue. K.Venugopal Wednesday, December 27, 2006 10:29:20 PM Live-in relationship is ideal - till the child comes along. Then marriage is ideal.