Abusive dissent

Sunday, December 31, 2006
ABUSIVE DISSENT
It is alright to believe in Islam and think Hindus are “foolish” to believe in so many Gods. It is ok to think Muslims are “hyper sensitive and die hard” followers of their religion. It does not matter if you as a Scheduled Caste think that the “Upper Castes” were not righteous in their manners with downtrodden communities. It is right to question Reservations as a tool to bridge the gulf created by the Caste system.
We, as enlightened human beings, have the right to dissent, from our own culture, our religion, our family or with our most cherished values.
What, is not alright is the way in which we express that dissent.
I have read many blogs and so called educated blogger’s comments. They range from invitation to have sex (lick my……..) to abusing an entire community (Hindus/ Muslims/ Upper Castes/ SC/ OBC are…………….) to straightaway blaming the other blogger as a “prejudiced” person for his religion/ community (You are a Muslim/ Hindu so you will always………….)
What does this represent?
Three Things
1. Our Education is “limited” and we might have degrees, but we are not “ENLIGHTENDED”. If we had been, we, who have read Geeta, would not have “abused or hurt” those who wish to seek the same God in a slightly different way (Quran/ Bible etc.) or those, who have read Quran, would not have abused Krishna/ Rama or any of other’s God’s for proving Islam/ Hinduism’s beauty and superiority.
2. Our background, our family values, our culture and the way we have been brought up. For, it is possible that our parents were abusive to us in our Childhood and used to tell us to lick their……….. or in front of us, they used to abuse others (neighbors, distant cousins or other communities) and as young minds, we picked it up form them at a subconscious level and when ever we see something that we do not understand or approve, the only way we could express our disapproval is by offering abuses or ill words or sexist remarks (lick this/ lick that/ your sister was……/ your mother is………..)
3. We are deeply hurt for lack of Sex in our lives and we seek fulfillment by writing sexist remarks on blogs or we seek sex from and in the form of “Socially unacceptable” sources. (I have seen some guys inviting other guys to suck or lick their……….I have also seen some guys showing intentions of raping other people’s mothers/ sisters etc.)
Well, this kind of Abusive Dissent is not cool (if you think so). You need help, from psychologists, social workers and need to understand how to express dissent on someone’s opinion or position. If you have some other problems (like lack of Sex or inability to get into homosexual relationships or feel like raping other women, please, fulfill your “Desires” offline and do not bring your unfulfilled desires on the Blog space, since there are quite a few “Healthy” Souls over here who are satisfied, happy with their sex lives and have been brought up by more sane parents and have been taught “expressing dissent” in a manner Society finds decent and acceptable.)
For the Healthy Souls of the “Normal Bloggers Community”, a very Happy New Year 2007- keep blogging with decency and with mutual respect.
For “Sick Minds” on the blog space I shall prey to God to bless you with wisdom, enlightenment, tolerance, patience, mercy, forgiveness, good upbringing, love, compassion and education in 2007 and onwards.
Ta Ta
2:23:51 PM
Posted By Rajneesh Sharma Comments (13) Society
Comments
well said Sunday, December 31, 2006 2:57:49 PM
well said sir, I agree many of your points. But, to generalise everything is inappropriate. So please be sepcific.
yaveshrana Sunday, December 31, 2006 3:05:43 PM
Dear RAJNEESH, I join you in condemning all those who indulge in using abusive and indecent language. I also do not approve of open disrespect being shown by some bloggers to other religions, in their bid to establish their superemacy. May GOD bless them all.
bhagwati Sunday, December 31, 2006 4:17:46 PM
yes , i join you in condemning all those who indulge in abusive language.i think here comes real education and family background.in family particularly mother who is very near to children , teaches moral values of life.here comes again, girls education.if mother is properly educated, she can teach their children about moral values by telling stories. which i used to listen when i was child.
MUNEERUDEEN Sunday, December 31, 2006 5:14:24 PM
There are some regular abusers of the blogspace. They can take their F Word comments to some F Word sites. Let sanity and sane individuals blog here - PLEASE !Its sometimes disgusting to read the blogs with such profane comments by some insane perverts !
Thangadurai Sunday, December 31, 2006 6:05:37 PM
better edit vulgar comments cut paste jobs negativity hatred
Gangaram Sunday, December 31, 2006 10:47:16 PM
Muneerudeen tu jakher lowda choos.
melodramaa Sunday, December 31, 2006 11:47:30 PM
rajneesh, wish you a happy new year and congrats for being the post of the day for the new year.
amardeep Monday, January 1, 2007 1:28:41 AM
Yes i agree to certain extent!!Guys like infidel etc should be banned to use filthy languages ASAP.Let make this blogs a clean place!!
manu_me Monday, January 1, 2007 5:40:58 AM
well mr sharma nuthin really specfic and the way of expressing was not satsifactory though the messages delivered was good
rinku Monday, January 1, 2007 7:09:46 AM
now the medicrity is out. the real talents like rajneesh jagdish yavesh r ruling the roost. very good.
jkeshav Monday, January 1, 2007 9:52:23 AM
RINKU THANKS VERY MUCH. I WRITE WITH AS MUCH SINCERITY AS I CAN ABOUT WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND US. MORE THAN PERSONAL IS MY OUTLOOK WHICH INVOLVES OUR SOCIETIES & OUR DAILY LIVES. I TRY TO WRITE WITH AN UNIVERSAL APPEAL BEYOND ANY RELIGION & CONCERNING HUMANITY.
jkeshav Monday, January 1, 2007 10:00:46 AM
AND YES I AGREE WITH YOU RAJNEESH. ANYBODY ABUSING OTHERS WITH DIFFERING OPINIONS ARE DOING SO WITH BLOATED EGOS. AFTER ALL WE ARE ALL CITIZENS OF ONE PLANET & GOING THRU ALL TRAVAILS TOGETHER BUT MAY BE IN DIFFERENT FORMS.
K.Venugopal Monday, January 1, 2007 10:29:21 AM
Dear Rajneesh, I entirely agree with you. However, we should not be unduly worried about foul language and all that. We should take it in our stride and know that the possibilities of expression are immense and to the reader everything is only a gain, one way or the other.